Mean Girls.

       Going back to school could mean heaven for some girls, and maybe a living hell for others. In every school there is that one group of girls, or just one girl that are known as the popular girl(s). But sometimes they could be extremely catty, rude, and self-conscious, and annoying. They/she can make your life a living hell with nothing to look forward to in middle school. But, don't let her/them ruin your life. There is this one girl who's mean, a liar, shes two faced and rude. Nobody really likes her. They just pretend to so she wont be rude and catty to them. But, don't be fake. Don't become rude either, just be casual with her or them, you don't have to become her best friend either. Just know that your a better person because you don't make someone else's life a living hell. 

P.S. Shoutout to all our readers everywhere even in other countries

                                  

                                                    - Braedyn and Sierra :)

Bullying Skits

Hey Readers, it's Braedyn!!!! I'm leadership at my school and we are combining Year-Long Art and some Leadership students to make skits to show what actual bullying can be and look like. We are also saying don't be a BYSTANDER and stand up to the bully!!!

Going back to school

Hey its Sierra, and I just wanted to let everyone know that Braedyn and we will hopefully be able to start posting twice a week. But, we need a little help... We need our readers to tell us problems they are having in school right now... email us or comment on the latest blog :) check in Mondays and Fridays!! Peace out for now...

We are back on schedule!

Hi everyone! I'm very sorry that Sierra and I haven't be blogging since school started. We've been really busy with school and soccer. Anyways if you've any drama or problems and thing or anybody please email me and Sierra at teenadvicegivers@ymail.com

Done with Summer?

Hey this is Sierra... Sorry Braedyn and I havent posted in a while, we have been busy... Anyway tonight I forced myself to write something even though I am exhausted!!! Anyway, most of us have gone back to school or we're going back to school soon, after a longgggggg summer! I have not gone back to school yet, but will on August 29th! Its bittersweet for me... I want to go back to school and see my friends, but I dont because that means leaving behind all my amazing friends from camp! I have missed my friends from school so much in the past couple of months, and I also know, that I already miss my friends from camp, and its been only a few days! I hope everyone had a FUN summer, but now is the time to hit the books and get back on schedule. :)

                                                         -Sierra-
P.S. If you have any problems during your school year, you can: comment on our posts, message us on our facebook page called Teen Advice Givers... Or if you dont have a facebook email us on our blogs email adress: teenadvicegivers@ymail.com

BFF fights

If you and best friend get into fights don't think that your relationship is over just because of a little fight. Sierra and I get into arguments all the time over misunderstandings. All you and you bff have to do is talk and work things out. If a boy or girl tries to get between you and your best friend don't let them, because your friendship is way more important than some boy or girl. If another person is getting in the way of you and your best friend, you need to ignore it and stay with your best friend, because if you let someone else get in the way, you wont know what the truth is. But, you should have a talk with both of them to find out what the lies and truths are, and mend the relationship!

                                                             - Braedyn (The brunette) 

PS, Sierra was unable to help write today!!

Crushes

We have those people who we think is cute, funny, and who we look for in a guy/girl..... We call them crushses! Most of us have them. Ive had a lot and they are all my friends. in my opinion, it doesn't matter what they look like, just as long as they are nice, caring, and funny! I have one..... He's not the best looking but, he's nice and funny! Always look for someone with a good personality first before looks..
                                                                        - Braedyn </3


I have one... And it really sucks because he likes another girl, and doesnt really see me.... But, hes sweet, funny, has a great personality, and loves life! Hes never rude, although he jokes around sometimes which is fine... :) Thats what I look for in my crushes. The point in me telling that is about how he likes another girl. Well, if your in the same kind of situation, then just relax. Dont obsess over him/her, its not worth it. Over time, you will find someone you like and that person will like you back!!!


                                                            - Sierra (the blonde one) ;)
  
P.S. and remember YOLO, so live life the way you want not the way someone elsse wants! Dont let others judge you, or your decisions!

Cyber Bullying! You Dont Want It Happening to You. Dont Do It To Others!!

It happens everywhere... Facebook, Twitter, MySpace, through texting, and even on the gaming devices like X-Box live... You know what its called, Cyber Bullying. If it happens to you, make sure to tell an adult, because the Federal Government is making it illegal to cyber bully, or take part in it whatsoever due to a girl who killed herself after being bullied. If it has happend to you or you are in the midst of it, do NOT believe what they are saying, because you are perfect just the way you are and you may have flaws but everyone does! Also keep in mind that school is something your going to pass through in life and after you finish it, you can keep going and start your life as an adult. You will meet new people, get a job, etc. But if it happens to you:

• Immediately get help from an ADULT (preferabbly your parents, teachers, or your principal)
• Go from there!

Hope this helped anyone who has gone through this or is going through this... Remember to comment and ask any questions because we check everyday! ;)

                                                      Bye for now,
                                                                 Sierra

Just Walk Away And Find Someone New!!!!!!!!!

 There was a time in elementary school where the girls would be very rude, selfish, and catty. All they cared about was them and they didnt care what happend when they did stuff to other people. At home I would just cry and cry and cry!! One day, I realized that I should just stop trying to be friends with them, and go find some true friends that would care about me. This happens a lot in elementary school, middle school and highschool. But you should make sure, that by the time you get to middle school, you know how to tell true friends from backstabbers, because it sucks being the one to be bullied!
LESSON: Make true friends. Watch out and DON'T befriend backstabbers.....
                                           - Braedyn And Sierra </3

Bio

Hey Braedyn and Sierra here! We are going to tell you guys a few things about us. We are just like you, we are here to help you. We are also figuring things out as we go along, if you need us we are here to talk to you. We play soccer,and we go to middle school. Me and Sierra LOVE 1D!

                                                      GoodNight Braedyn and Sierra :)

The Colddddd Feeling of being ICEolated

          Hey it's Sierra and Braedyn, and we are writing this time to talk about the feeling of being isolated, which is to be ignored or talked about behind your back. I know that we have dealt with this first hand, and its a horrible feeling to go through this, but tonight we are going to give you some tips on how to tackle the situation. First off, I will tell you my story. In this past school year, there was a lot more drama then in the years before, especially the isolation problem. We had a "clique" at school and we started to isolate one girl and then a couple weeks later we stopped and moved on to a different girl in the group. In the second trimester, the girl getting isolated was me (Sierra). That week when it started, a lot was going through my head, I learned who my true friends were, and who not to really trust. But, the thing that was really eating me up inside, was that they would gossip about me right in front of my face. They thought i couldnt see them doing it, which was kind of dumb because im not stupid. So, since this happens a lot, I will give you some tips on how to deal with it:

• Go to someone you trust (an adult), and ask for their opinion on the problem and to help you.
• Address the person(s), and ask them what happend, and if you did something wrong, how could you fix it.
• Make sure to listen to them and look them in the eye when adressing them.
• Be sincere on everything you say, and dont have any sort of bad attitude.
• If the situation gets worse, and you havent already gone to an adult, get one and tell them to help you.

Boy drama and girl drama is different, so the isolation thing often doesnt happen with boys, but if it does there is some advice for you. Please comment and ask questions beccause Braedyn and I are here for you!

                                             -Braedyn and Sierra- ;)

SHHH!!! It's a secret!

We all have that special someone who we think is admirable, and most of us have best friends that we can tell anything to, even our deepest darkest secrets. You should only tell that ONE person that you completely trust who you have a crush on, because if u tell other people it can spread around. If your comfortable with other people knowing, possibly even your crush then it doesn't matter who you tell. But if you dont want others knowing, make sure to either keep it to youself, or only tell that one person who you trust. Remember if you have any questions, comment on our page and give us ideas what to write about!
                                           Till next time,
                                                          Sierra and Braedyn

Our new blog!!!!!!

              Hi everybody, this is Sierra and Braedyn, and we want to welcome you to our new blog! This blog will be mainly about problems in tweens and teens' life, and help to guide you through them. We are in middle school, and you can come to us for help anytime you need it, whether it be boy drama, girl drama, bullying, family problems, and anything else like that! We want you to keep reading our blog, and make sure to come to us with questions people! :)

                                                                       -Sierra and Braedyn-